How learning Gaeilge in Ireland expanded more than my vocabulary
Dec 13, 2019 鈥 14 min read
This sign indicates that Cape Clear Island in County Cork is still "an ghaeltacht," or a place where Gaeilge is still a primary language 漏 Geography Photos via Getty Images
Twenty years ago, before my first trip to Ireland, I began the list of the things I would need 鈥 not my many material necessities (toiletries, spare underwear, or the 1996 print edition of ) 鈥 but with my one immaterial hope: language, the Irish language, Gaeilge.
As a twenty-four year old graduate student, I needed a second language for my PhD and chose Gaeilge. Aspirational and inspirational study. Though I am Irish-American (all but one great-grandparent immigrated from Ireland鈥檚 west coast), my Irishness, then, was defined by my name, Kerry, my Catholic school education, my Aran sweater, and my St. Patrick鈥檚 Day, Guinness-inspired toasts of Erin Go Braughs! and 厂濒谩颈苍迟别蝉!
My dissertation advisor, friends, and family all roundly asked in bewilderment, 鈥淲hen will you ever need Irish?鈥 It was, in other words, an impractical, absurd course of study attempted via cassette tapes and a textbook. Out of 4.2 million Irish citizens, only 1.7 million speak Gaeilge, and of this group, only 73,803 speak Gaeilge on a daily basis and live in Gaeltacht communities in Counties Galway, Clare, Cork, and Mayo, all on the west coast.
So there was no practical need for any Irish in order to wander Dublin, Galway, or even remote villages like Gleann Cholm Cille (Glencolmcille) in Dh煤n na nGall (Donegal), unlike the basic Italian or Arabic needed to find my way through Rome鈥檚 winding neighborhoods or Marrakesh鈥檚 medina, or even Spanish to navigate menus in my favorite Houston hole-in-the-wall taquerias.
A bewildering language, too. Intricate grammar rules: nouns declined for number and case, and classified by gender; verbs declined for person and number; inflected prepositions; initial consonant mutations for plurals; adjectives that follow nouns; and syntax that follows verb-subject-object order. Listening to cassette tapes? Words were indistinguishable and ran together in one unbroken melody, more song than sentence, rising and falling in its cadences and rhythms. And without a native speaker as my teacher? Impenetrable, dense consonant clusters and fadas, ie, the village of Achadh Dh铆obh贸g (Aghayeevoge).
My first attempt at Irish? Mostly intellectual hubris, but when I listened language tapes or to traditional music, I felt an inexplicable ache, as if the lilting, throaty sounds were part of my DNA 鈥 a third strand intertwined in that double helix. Language, its sound and structure, shapes how we see the world and how call ourselves into being in this world. All but one of my great-grandparents were native Irish speakers, so I couldn't help but wonder if residual traces were part of my cellular memory.
After a year of diligent study, I could translate a few easy sentences from Gaeilge to English, but couldn鈥檛 say Go raibh maith agat (thank you) and Failte romhat (You鈥檙e welcome) with any confidence. I conceded defeat and put my carry-on in storage and my dreams on hold.
Twenty years later, I arrived in Limerick on a five-month Fulbright teaching fellowship. Beyond my official academic purpose, I was determined to learn Irish, or at least cupla focal (a few words). Limerick is Ireland鈥檚 third largest city, though not usually on the average American鈥檚 鈥淏est of Ireland鈥 tourist itinerary. Before the Celtic Tiger boom in the nineties, Limerick had high unemployment, poverty, and crime, and earned (perhaps unfairly) the gritty nickname 鈥淪tab City.鈥 Most Americans know Limerick through Frank McCourt鈥檚 grim depiction of his childhood in its slums in Angela鈥檚 Ashes. But Limerick is also a resilient city, having survived various invasions and colonization by the Vikings, the Norman-French, and the English.
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Limerick was not my second or third or fourth choice after Dublin, Cork, or Galway, but always my first as it is my ancestral home. In 1914, my then sixteen year old great-grandmother, Annie O鈥機onnor, left Limerick on the steamship Celtic, leaving behind her parents, her six siblings, the crowded tenement beside a pig slaughterhouse on Palmerstown Street where she was born and the two room, two-windowed cottage on a farm in Newcastle West where she grew up. She arrived in New York and never returned to Ireland. She died when I was five, so I have few memories of her except of her warm, shaky lilt, her brogue, the sound of her home that she carried with her.
I lived across the street from the Shannon River, a five minute walk from my great-grandmother鈥檚 tenement, and each morning, rain or shine (though more often rain or rain) I settled with a coffee on a bench and marveled at the riotous caterwauling gulls or wandered down the boat ramp into the muck, ankle deep in it, observing what lived and drifted beside me, around me, through me. Swans, cormorants, plovers, gulls, terns, ducks, dragonflies and damselflies; in the darker deep, salmon, smelt, pike, trout, and eels.
I attended Irish mass Sunday mornings at St. Michael's church, one of the first five original parishes in Limerick, founded in 1650, rebuilt in 1801 in its present location on Sr谩id Damnhaigh (Denmark Street), and my great-grandmother's first church. Not for the catechism, but for the language. On my first Sunday before mass started, an elderly man came up to me in the pew and introduced himself as "Michael." I told him this was my great-grandmother's church and I was living in Limerick for a few months.
"Welcome home," he said, and clasped my hand. "We welcome you home."
But church wasn't my only connection to the past and present Ireland. I'd been struggling in community Gaeilge classes, and it was recommended I start lessons with a tutor to help me untangle the strings of consonants and winding grammatical structures. Three mornings a week I walked up Clancy鈥檚 Strand, crossed the Sarsfield Bridge, and then up O鈥機onnell Street for Irish lessons with my 89-year old teacher, D贸nal O鈥機eallaigh.
On the way, I took a deliberate detour through my great-grandmother鈥檚 neighborhood, trying to see what she might have seen and what she never returned to see. I listened for her ghostly footfalls inside of mine and tried to move through the world inside her language, whispering the rudimentary names of everything I could name as Gaeilge: crann (tree), 茅补苍 (bird), eaglais (church), 濒别补苍补铆 (children), 产谩颈蝉迟别补肠丑 (rain), tuar ceatha (rainbow).
Though D贸nal was hard of hearing and occasionally stammered, his blue eyes were clear and appraising. He told me that he was born in 1930 in the upstairs bedroom in this very house, and that his father was born in 1880 in Limerick鈥檚 Irishtown, my great-grandmother鈥檚 neighborhood. 鈥淢aybe our families have known each other before,鈥 he said. 鈥淚t is like that here. Is teaghlach amh谩in muid (We are one family).鈥
D贸nal always waited for me with the front door open and with an effusive smile. 鈥Dia duit! Conas t谩 t煤? An raibh si煤l贸id mhaith agat?鈥 (Hello, how are you? Did you have a good walk?)
鈥Dia duit,鈥 I鈥檇 reply. 鈥T谩 m茅 go maith! T谩 s茅 ag cur b谩ist铆 ach 谩lainn.鈥 (I am good. It is raining but beautiful.)
D贸nal refused payment (though I brought raisin scones), explaining that at his age, he was just happy that I was carrying the sounds of Gaelige forward. 鈥淚n that way, our language does not die, though we do. And me before you,鈥 he said with a wink.
At our first lesson, I pulled out my Irish dictionary and my two decades old textbook from my backpack. D贸nal laughed and told me not to worry about grammar and spelling or what the words looked like on the page. 鈥淵ou will see them and feel them in your ears and mouth,鈥 he said. 鈥淵ou鈥檒l learn in the way we all learn language as children 鈥 by listening to each other and repeating what we hear. You鈥檒l learn by necessity. We are just trying to understand each other, aren鈥檛 we? Not pass tests. We have a saying as Gaeilge: Is fearr Gaeilge bhriste, n谩 B茅arla cliste. Yes? Broken Irish is better than clever English.鈥
One morning, D贸nal read aloud Seamus Heaney鈥檚 poem, 鈥淭he Toome Road, 鈥
Sowers of seed, erectors of headstones鈥
O charioteers, above your dormant guns,
It stands here still, stands vibrant as you pass,
The visible, untoppled omphalos.
His index finger underscored each word across the page and finally stopped on the last word: omphalos.
鈥淲hat do you think he meant by that?鈥 he asked. 鈥淚 am wondering and wondering.鈥
鈥淭he center,鈥 I said, and pointed to my bellybutton, 鈥渋t is always here.鈥
鈥淵es,鈥 he said. 鈥淏ut is Ireland the center? Language? Our language, Gaeilge? Or are we the center, sitting here together? Hmmm. Ar ais ag obair! Back to work!鈥
D贸nal was resolute in teaching me the Irish names of places I鈥檇 been traveling to and through: Luimneach (Limerick), Abhainne na Siobhainne (Shannon River), Olscoill Luimnigh (University of Limerick), Oile谩in 脕rann (Aran Islands), Cille Airne (Killarney).
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鈥Cille Airne,鈥 he said, 鈥渕eans church of the sloes 鈥 blackthorn. Killarney? The phonetic English spelling?鈥 He laughed. 鈥淢eans nothing. Do you know Lemonfield, a few kilometers from Limerick? Lemons don鈥檛 grow in our potato fields. But the English translated our sounds: L茅im an Fheadh. Lame-on-fia. Lemonfield. The Irish? L茅im an Fheadh: the place where the deer jump across. A sound that leaps out of our land, a word poem.鈥 He leaned over the table and said, 鈥淪ay it with me. L茅im an Fheadh, L茅im an Fheadh, L茅im an Fheadh.鈥
And so I did. He was so close that I felt his breath on my cheek and how his breath carried a resonant story. L茅im an Fheadh 鈥 an incantation summoning me to hear and to see 鈥 field and water and animal and muscles and hooves and light and flight and air and here and gone. So much is lost when we are careless with our sounds.
This was why D贸nal watched my mouth making those new shapes and sounds, and it was why we spoke together, in unison, my mouth mirroring his and my hesitant soundings swept into his confident depths. And when I struggled? He took my hand in his and said, 鈥淪shhh, mo st贸r. It will come. The language is already in you.鈥
Across those months, D贸nal and I were the best of travelling companions: we moved through a language together, off-road, off-map, on a loose itinerary. Learning to listen and to speak in another language is not a passive, rote exercise but an active, intimate exploration, an incantation that calls us into being and into relationship with each other and the world.
In our easy conversational back and forth, in D贸nal's fluency and in my stumbling, I heard my great-grandmother speak to me in the language of her home, Luimneach, across one-hundred-and twenty-five years distance; I heard D贸nal summon his own eighty-nine years of stories anchored to this home and to his family here in Luimneach; and I heard my own voice resonate inside this ancient language that, like me, like D贸nal is still here.
Can you hear how Gaeilge is a language of incantation binding us and the world through sound and rhythm? Just listen, yes, try to listen, to the Song of Amergin, first spoken (invoked, incanted!) in early Irish around AD 400 by the poet and druid Amergin Glanglun when he first arrived on the shores of Kenmare Bay, and written down (recorded!) around AD 1100 in the Book of Invasions:
Am gaeth i m-muir I am the wind on the sea
Am tond trethan I am the stormy wave
Am fuaim mara I am the sound of the ocean
Am dam secht ndirend I am the bull with seven horns
Am s茅ig i n-aill I am the hawk on the cliff face
Am d茅r gr茅ne I am the sun鈥檚 tear
Am cain lubai I am the beautiful flower
Am torc ar gail I am the boar on the rampage
Am he i l-lind I am the salmon in the pool
Am loch i m-maig I am the lake on the plain
Am 产谤铆 a ndai鈥 I am the word...
Am 产谤铆 a ndai. I am the word.
In a 1941 translation of this poem, R.A.S. Macalister notes that 产谤铆 is a form of bruigen, hill. Ndai a form of duine, a human being, but it is also a play on 诲谩苍补别, poems. Am 产谤铆 a ndai: I am hill, I am word, I am poems.
Towards the end of my months in Luimneach, Irish language circuitry in my brain began to connect and I felt electrified and moved through my days and nights speaking and dreaming in my ragged Gaeilge. As in all other things, D贸nal was right: I began to hear and see and feel Irish without having to think of words or sound them in painstaking rote remembrance.
"T谩 t煤 go hiontach, mo st贸r," D贸nal said, at the end of every lesson. (You are wonderful, my love.)
A friend told me that mo st贸r, my love, my darling, was an old fashioned endearment, not used much anymore. "How lovely," he said, "to hear you say it."
"T谩 t煤 go hiontach, mo st贸r," I said to D贸nal.
"T谩 t煤 go hiontach, mo st贸r," I said to Luimneach.
"T谩 t煤 go hiontach, mo st贸r," I said as Gaeilge.
I am at home now, back in the United States, but I am also at home in Luimneach. I am still learning Irish via Duolingo, textbooks, podcasts, and YouTube videos. My dog Connor, while no great conversationalist, patiently listens to me as I practice for my return (not twenty years hence, but in six months鈥 time and ar铆s agus ar铆s eile 鈥 again and again).
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鈥An raibh t煤 go maith n贸 d谩na?鈥 I say to Connor when I return home from work (Have you been good or naughty?). He wags and gives me a happy lick.
Conchobhair (Connor) in Irish means 鈥渓over of hounds.鈥 He is also named for my Luinmneach O鈥機onchobhairs 鈥 the O鈥機onnors of Limerick who came before me.
But more: I am still learning from and listening to and speaking with D贸nal. He does not have internet or cell phone, so every few weeks, we exchange letters as Gaeilge. Always mo mh煤inteoir (my teacher), D贸nal sends my letters back with his highlighted corrections and gentle advice: 鈥N谩 cuir strus ort f茅in. Mura dtuigeann t煤 na focail, f谩g iad ar leataobh.鈥 (Do not stress yourself. If you don鈥檛 understand the words, leave them aside.) Every few months? We chat on the phone as Gaeilge. Happy convergence: this morning before sitting down to finish this essay, I called him on his ninetieth birthday!
鈥Dia Duit! L谩 breithe sona dhuit mo chara!鈥 I said. (Hello! Happy Birthday my friend!)
鈥淎hhh, Kerry! Mo st贸r!鈥 he said, and instantaneously, I was sitting beside him in Luimneach and he was holding my hand.
Recently, I asked my friend and Irish novelist D贸nal Ryan why he persists with Irish, why it is important to him as a writer and as well as an Irish citizen. In other words, I asked him, 鈥淲hy is Gaeilge da bomb?鈥
He said, 鈥Gaeilge is important to me firstly in a kind of one-dimensional, nationalistic way. It bolsters my sense of being part of a discrete group, distinct from the rest of the Anglophone world. It's like a cosy secret, a way of being one up on our monoglottic former oppressors.
"There's another thing that makes me love Irish, especially the open-hearted, non-fascistic Irish of the not-quite-fully-fluent speaker who was taught well in school and maintained an interest: the warm sound of it, the way it softens consonants and lengthens vowels, the beautiful rhythm it imposes on every sentence, whether spoken fluidly or in broken clauses," continued Ryan.
"The language is all about us 鈥 nearly every information sign and road sign in Ireland is in both tongues, yet Irish is roundly ignored by most people," he notes. "And I don't blame anyone for their animosity or resentment or straight up hatred 鈥 we all have bitter memories of interminable conjugations, of the dreaded m贸dh coin铆ollach (the conditional form)."
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"Irish was forced upon us by diktat and under threat of force just as English was forced on our forebears. And after thirteen years of daily lessons most of us left school with barely a word. I was just lucky to have had a teacher called Martin Scully who could teach stones to speak Irish.鈥
Agus t谩im t-谩dh agus beannaithe (And I am lucky and blessed) to have a teacher called D贸nal O鈥機eallaigh who teaches this stone to speak Gaeilge.
At the end of every letter, D贸nal signs off with the following sl谩n go f贸ill (farewell for now): Scr铆obh ar铆s agus le gr谩, mo st贸r. (Write again and with love, my love, my darling.)
And so I do: Am 产谤铆 a ndai. I am hill, I am word, I am poems.
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